“Umabiba,” 27
Des Moines
Diagnosed 2004

How did you come up with your profile name?
It’s a nickname my Brazilian best friend gave me in college.

What’s the worst date you’ve been on?
He was 50 minutes late and smelled like fish.

Which Will & Grace character do you most resemble?
I’m a “Wilk”—a combination of Will and Jack. I can be all-out gay and totally reserved.